Just about everyone leans into it now and gets confused if I happen to not give them a kiss on the cheek.” 7. That way they don’t think I’m some weird creep trying to mack on their wives, they just think I’m weird. Surprisingly everyone is cool with it and it’s just sort of become my thing. After realizing that I was doing this without really thinking about it, I just started doing it to the guys too. I realized that when I greet the wives in the group and when we leave, I kiss them on the cheek. “My wife and I hang out with a lot of married couples.